The Routine Of Narcissists Once You Become “The One That Got Away”

Have you ever wondered what goes on in a narcissist’s world after you become The One That Got Away? Well, you’re in for a treat because we’re about to uncover the daily ritual they just can’t seem to resist.

Let’s unravel the mystery of what narcissists do every day after you become The One That Got Away. Get ready for some eye-opening insights! Narcissists, regardless of gender, do something specific every day, and it all revolves around you being the one who got away.

It might sound poetic, but it’s not that simple. When a narcissist starts devaluing you, their way of thinking becomes very black and white. In their eyes, you’re either good or bad; there’s no in-between. If you no longer serve a purpose in their life, you’re immediately labeled as bad. With a narcissist, there’s no middle ground; they see things in absolute terms.

During the devaluation phase, the narcissist makes a significant mistake in how they see you. They think everything will go as usual during this phase leading up to the discard phase. They believe they can treat you badly just like they have treated others before. Their plan is to hurt you deeply during the discard phase with their disrespectful behavior, thinking everything will go on as usual, trapping you in their manipulation.

Do you realize what you’ve achieved? You embraced the pain, endured it, and wore it like a badge of honor. Despite having no reason for such torment, you went through it. Many of you watching are strong; you’ve faced challenges in life and shown incredible strength—not because you wanted to, but because life threw those trials your way. And despite everything, you always managed to rise above.

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