Their entire life becomes a cycle of seeking applause and punishing anyone who refuses to clap. And for the new supply, they’ve stepped into that desert too—lured by the mirage of a prize, only to discover it’s a wasteland. The only way out is awakening: an opening of the eyes, a rising of the soul, a choice to walk toward freedom. That’s where divine liberation begins. That’s where chains fall and wings spread.
So, what about you? What should you do in the face of all this chaos? Yes, cut the ties. Yes, silence the noise on social media. But don’t stop there. Don’t let your healing revolve around watching the new supply collapse or waiting for the narcissist to face judgment. That still keeps your eyes fixed on them. Healing means turning your gaze inward and upward.
The lie you’ve been fed is that you’re worthless without the narcissist’s approval. But that’s not truth; that’s bondage. The truth is this: you are already whole. Your value doesn’t come from being someone’s supply; it comes from who you are in the eyes of God. You are loved. You are complete. You were never broken; you were only deceived.
Surround yourself with those who see you, who celebrate you, who remind you of your worth. Pick up the pieces of joy again. Do the things that light your spirit. And yes, seek help if you need it. Many walk away from these storms carrying the scars of complex trauma. Don’t carry it alone. Find wise counselors—guides who can help you untangle the lies, heal the wounds, and step fully into who you were created to be.
And remember this: while the narcissist and the new supply are trapped in a cycle that eats itself alive, you are walking free. You’re on the road of rebuilding, rediscovering, reclaiming your life. Theirs is a loop of destruction, but yours is a journey of peace, purpose, and fulfillment.
So walk tall, lift your head, and let the past stay behind you. Because your future isn’t written in their chaos; it’s written in your freedom. That’s where I’ll leave you today. If these words spoke to you, share them. Let others hear. Keep walking. Keep rising. And know this: you are never the prize lost.
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