All narcissists are sexual and emotional cheaters. Wait, before you go, my narcissistic spouse never cheated on me. I never found anything on his or her phone, nor did I ever catch them red-handed. So, what are you even talking about? I know it’s very difficult to believe what I just said, and it sounds controversial, but I have proof. I have something tragic to share with you that I believe will convince you that these people are full of malice. They are sneaky and stealthy; they know how to get the job done without you finding out.
Understanding Narcissistic Behavior
Needless to say, all narcissists are driven by supply, and they get bored very easily when it is only coming from one source, which could be you or your children. They need more; they need diversity. How do they create that diversity? By hunting other people down—those who may not know about their double life, those who may be easy targets, and those they can prey upon without getting caught.
The question isn’t whether a narcissist cheats on their spouse or not; the actual question is whether a narcissist can cheat and get away with it. If they can, I can almost guarantee you that a narcissist will cheat. It is given; it is their reality.
What compels me to say so? Their nature. Can you stop a predator from hunting? That is the predator’s nature; that is what it was created to do. Of course, for a narcissist, it is a choice, but a choice driven by their sensations.
There isn’t a moral compass like you and I have. They don’t think, “Oh, I feel like doing it, but I cannot because it is a violation; it is a wrong thing to do.” They may feel attracted to someone and have the urge to talk to them or send a message, but they do not stop and think about their commitments or the family they have. Their moral values do not constrain them like yours would.
A narcissist is purely driven by their dysregulated emotions. If they anticipate experiencing thrill from doing something unacceptable, they will do it. They won’t ask, “Should I do it? Is it wrong or right?” No, they will ask, “Is someone watching? Can I get caught?” If the answer is no, they will proceed.
A Personal Tragedy: Proof of Malice
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