The narcissist will never admit it, but you were different. You weren’t just another person they could manipulate and discard. No, you saw through them, and when they pushed you too far, you did what most people never do: you walked away. But here is what they do not want you to know: they think about you every single day because you’re the one who got away, and it drives them insane. They pretend like they do not care, like they have moved on effortlessly, but the truth is much darker. Behind closed doors, they are doing things every single day that prove they are still obsessed with you. They cannot forget you; they cannot let you go. Deep down, they know it.
Number One: They Try to Convince Themselves They Never Cared
Classic gaslighting. One of the biggest ironies about a narcissist is this: the more they insist they do not care, the more obsessed they actually are. Whatever they tell you, the truth is just the opposite. They tell people, “I barely remember him or her,” or act like you were never important. They pretend your time together was just a phase, something insignificant. But if that were true, why are they still talking about you? Why are they stalking you? The reality is they’re furious that they did not break you, enraged that you did not come crawling back, and shattered that someone like you—someone they thought they had control over—was able to walk away.
The worst part for them is that they cannot admit it, whether they like it or not. Instead, they convince themselves that you never mattered, repeating the lie so many times that they start believing it. But their actions prove otherwise. If you truly did not matter, why do they still talk badly about you? Why do they still try to prove their point and ridicule you, portraying you as a villain to others? If someone is truly insignificant to you, you do not waste your time thinking about them, let alone tarnishing their name. Their obsession shows in the way they react to your absence. They cannot comprehend how you are thriving without them. In their delusional mind, they believed you needed them to survive. But that’s not the truth; you were already doing everything alone. You were your own partner, your own emotional support, and often even your own provider. That realization alone is enough to destroy them.
Number Two: They Try to Replace You, but It Never Works
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