What most people don’t realize is that narcissists serve a deeper purpose in our lives. At a soul level, their presence can be seen as a contract or catalyst for growth. They are here to bring your unconscious wounds to the surface so you can finally address them, heal them, and break free.
The narcissist is not the healer of your wounds; they are the messenger. By targeting your most sensitive areas, they force you to confront the unresolved traumas you may not have even been aware of. This is an opportunity to heal those wounds, but only if you stop looking to the narcissist for validation or resolution.
The Power of Self-Partnering
The key to freedom and healing is not outsmarting the narcissist, but rather outsmarting the emotional hooks that keep you tied to them. When you stop feeding the narcissist your energy—fear, pain, anger—you cut off the source of their power. This begins with self-partnering.
Self-partnering means turning inward, connecting with your emotions, and healing the original traumas that attracted the narcissist into your life in the first place. This process shifts you out of the toxic dynamic with the narcissist. As you up-level and heal, the narcissist can no longer affect you, because you are no longer operating on the same emotional frequency.
How Healing Leads to Outsmarting
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