The fifth and final way the narcissist may respond is with indifference. They ignored you first. You did not chase them, so they carry on as if you do not exist, making no attempts to contact you or Hoover. They act as if it is not a big deal and that they are just carrying on with their lives. The reality is that the narcissist is holding out to see who can ignore whom the longest. They may secretly believe that you need them more than they need you, and it will just be a matter of time before you break your silence. Their non-reaction is their way of making you feel insignificant, hoping to lure you back into seeking their approval. However, it is best to never go back, as the narcissist will only be filled with resentment and a desire to punish you for taking so long.
1 Emotional Predators
In conclusion, narcissists are emotional predators, and when you do not engage in these emotional games with them, you must make up your mind to disconnect; otherwise, you risk being Hoovered or becoming a target for revenge. Therefore, when dealing with a narcissist, prioritize your own mental health and accept that life would be a lot better if this person was
not in it. If you cannot cut them off completely, just create some serious distance and establish firm boundaries between the two of you. It is not worth engaging with a narcissist in their toxic games. Never chase them or seek their approval or validation because it will only give them more control over you.
Final Thoughts
Ultimately, recognizing the patterns of a narcissist’s behavior can empower you to take charge of your mental and emotional well-being. By understanding these five possible reactions, you can better prepare yourself for their attempts at manipulation when you choose not to chase them.
It’s essential to remind yourself that you deserve relationships that are healthy, supportive, and mutually respectful. The moment you step away from conforming to a narcissist’s wants and needs is the moment you begin to reclaim your power.
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