Once charm doesn’t work, they twist the narrative.
Now you’re “cold,” “selfish,” “ungrateful.”
You’re “just like everyone else who gave up on them.”
They’ll tell mutual friends how you “abandoned” them or “turned toxic.”
It hurts. Not just because of the lies—but because part of you still wants to be understood.
Here’s the truth: they’re not trying to be understood. They’re trying to win.
4. They Might Try to Replace You (Very Publicly)
Ever notice how fast narcissists jump into “new relationships”?
Or post overly happy photos?
That’s not healing. That’s a performance.
They want you to feel jealous. Confused. Doubtful of your decision to leave.
Because if they can’t have your love, they’ll settle for your attention.
Don’t fall for it. It’s part of the show.
5. They Test Your Boundaries Like It’s a Game
They’ll “accidentally” text you.
Call late at night.
Send you a meme or a song that only the two of you understood.
They’re testing the waters. Hoping you crack. Even just a little.
Because any reaction—positive or negative—is still proof they matter.
The only thing narcissists fear more than being hated is being irrelevant.
6. They Eventually Move On—But Only When They Find a New Supply
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