They will go to any lengths to prove that you are wrong about something. They will try to make you unsee their vicious cycle and prove you wrong. They will make sure that they make you feel like you are making a big deal out of nothing.
Gaslighting also involves confusing the other person. A narcissist would try their best to make sure that they confuse you by bringing up stories of the past and things that are not relevant to the problem at hand. They aim at making you second guess your choices and then shame you about the same.
If you have a narcissist partner, chances are that they might be love bombing you that is a form of gaslighting. With love bombing, they try every trick in the book to make sure that they cast a magic spell on you in the name of love.
- Projection
One quality that you can identify a narcissist through is projection. They start blaming you for the things that they did wrong. They blame you for the abuse that they are putting you through. They want to project that you are the real culprit and not them.
A wonderful book: Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself
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