A narcissist wants you to believe that they cannot be affected by anything, that they are immune and unsusceptible to the flaws that you and the people around them have. But the truth is entirely different, the opposite of what they perceive their reality to be. There are things that can shock them to their core and devastatingly impact them, and that is what we are going to talk about today in this article.
1. When You Don’t Choose the Narcissist
Narcissists believe they are super charming, capable of attracting anyone they set their sights on. They think they can have anyone in their life because everyone is supposedly into them. When you stop chasing them, their delusion is challenged, making them question their worth. This brings their insecurities to the surface.
When these insecurities start surfacing, they hate you because they don’t want to face them. As a result, they might either try to win you back through hoovering, or, if that fails, rage at you for making them feel vulnerable. Ignoring a narcissist is akin to death for them—it makes them wonder how you, of all people, are not captivated by them when, in their mind, everyone else is. This becomes the ultimate injury to their false self.
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