Every part of life, from nature to relationships, requires balance to sustain itself. But narcissists do not live in balance, do they? They always overdo or underdo. They always go to extremes. If they work, they overwork, burdening themselves and everyone else. If they rest, they collapse into laziness, expecting others to carry their load. If they love, it’s obsession. If they hate, it’s destruction. Nothing about them is measured, and nothing is sustainable.
This imbalance infects everything they touch. A relationship with a narcissist is a constant seesaw. You never know where the ground is. One day they shower you with love; the next day, they starve you of it. One moment they’re laughing; the next, they’re screaming. Balance terrifies them because it means stability. It means predictability, and predictability strips them of control. Where life asks for harmony, they bring chaos. Where life thrives in rhythm, they bring discord.
This is why balance—the very fabric of existence—is something they can never accept, and why everything around them eventually collapses. That is why they are their own karma, as I always say.
Conclusion: Recognizing Narcissistic Behavior
To bring it all together, the truth is narcissists reveal themselves in the most ordinary of places: in traffic jams, in waiting lines, at community gatherings, in moments of boredom, in team projects, in times of peace, and in the daily balance of life. Where the rest of us find normalcy, they find unbearable salt. Where the rest of us learn patience, they erupt in rage. And that’s why you can never deal with them in the way you think you can deal with a normal person. You must leave as soon as possible.
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