Then they tell the narcissist, quite literally, “You made a wrong choice, but we are with you now.” They come to their rescue. No matter how evident their mistakes are, they will justify their abuse, they will blame their behaviors on you, they will create pressure on you to change yourself to serve the narcissist better. They will say, “He or she is experiencing a lot of difficulties at work, and you should be more understanding. Instead, you are giving them trouble. What’s wrong with you? You are a bad partner.” And your children, they are not cooperating at all; they are causing a massive problem for our son or daughter, and this family is falling apart because of you. This is how they will fight on behalf of the narcissist. And why is that? Because they are each other’s extensions. There is no individuality; there is no separate personality here. It’s all one.
2.They are loyal to these narcissistic family members
They are loyal to each other, these narcissistic family members. Because narcissistic abuse is a team sport. Whenever somebody talks about narcissistic abuse, they only focus on the single narcissist, only talk about the narcissistic partner, the narcissistic parent. But you need to know, they’re not the only culprits. They are supported by their flying monkeys, they’re supported by their enablers who would go to any extent to be there for the narcissist. They’ll lie, they’ll gaslight, they’ll sacrifice themselves, which is why I say this is a cult. That’s what they do. They have to protect the master, they have to protect their partner, they have to protect an extension of their ego at any cost. And that’s why I call it a team sport.
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