The thing with any good news or joy is that we want to share it with others. We want to connect and celebrate. We want to share our freedom because we believe that when people hear our good news, they will be happy for us because they love us. But not the narcissist. They will be unhappy in your happiness.
Every single move you make for your betterment—be it earning more money, starting a side hustle, or reconnecting with family—should remain private. The narcissist is your mortal enemy; they do not wish you well. They might tell you they support you, but we both know what happens later: they will build you up only to bring you down. Your disappointment is what truly satisfies them.
So, don’t tell them about your next move, no matter how small or big it is. You must be unpredictable. It’s implied that you also can’t tell them about things related to ending a marriage, changing its trajectory, or moving assets into your name. If you want to be amicable, a narcissist is not the person to be amicable with. The only person you should cooperate with is yourself because you’ve been through hell. So, be secretive. Keep your cards close to your chest, and I assure you, your future self will thank you.
Number Two: Your Financial Information
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