A narcissist never reveals their most dangerous traits while you are still under their control. They save those for the moment you no longer serve their purpose. When they discard you, their real demonic self emerges. It becomes a calculated game of intimidation, control, and fear. Suddenly, their silence feels like a weapon, heavy enough to make the air in the room turn thick. You start noticing things that shouldn’t be happening, like glass shattering for no reason, personal items vanishing without a trace, or a drink they offer you that you instinctively know not to touch because they may have tampered with it. It’s your body warning you against the danger that you once felt in your gut, and it’s now standing right in front of you. These are the traits they keep buried until the discard, when they no longer need to pretend to be human.
Number One: Predatory Silence
They enter the room and just stare until you physically feel tense. This is not the kind of silence you get when someone is lost in thought or having a bad day. This is calculated and predatory silence. They will walk into the room without saying a single word. They will not greet you or move around aimlessly. Instead, they plant themselves somewhere within your sight and just stare. It’s not a curious or loving look; it’s a dead, penetrating stare that seems to go straight past your eyes and into your bones. You can feel it in your body before you even consciously register it. Your shoulders tighten, your breathing becomes shallow, and your mind starts racing, searching for any reason for why they are behaving this way. This is one of the clearest signs that the relationship has shifted into a more dangerous phase.
Before, they may have used words to manipulate you—love bombing, gaslighting, guilt-tripping—you know their deal. Now, they are using your own body against you. Silence becomes a tool to make you feel smaller, weaker, and more on edge. They know you will either break the silence by asking, “What’s wrong? Why are you looking at me like that?” or by trying to justify yourself for things you did not do. Either way, they have pulled you back into the psychological game without saying a word.
The other aspect of this behavior is the demonic spirit attached to a narcissist, which I have discussed countless times. That spirit gets activated, and they look at you with a pure smirk and hatred on their face. You feel that it’s not a human being trying to make eye contact with you; it’s something otherworldly. Let me know in the comments if you have experienced this.
Number Two: Food and Drink as a Tool for Control
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