Nobody is perfect, but narcissists often think they are. They work tirelessly to maintain a perfect façade, pretending they’ve never failed at anything and that their weaknesses don’t exist. They’ll go as far as bending the truth or denying real events to support this fake flawless image. Obviously, they aren’t perfect, but if you confront a narcissistic person, they won’t back down easily. Instead, they’ll become defensive and harsh. They may lash out at you, tear you down, or blame you for their failures. Someone who is empathetic and self-aware doesn’t need to blame others for their mistakes. They proudly take responsibility for and come to terms with their imperfections. So, be wary of anyone who claims to be perfect, flawless, or invincible. If this person can’t handle imperfection, they may be more toxic than you realize.
5. Excessive Validation:
Narcissists often seem more confident than they are. They project an air of overwhelming self-assurance. They stand tall, pretending to be the most secure and powerful person in the room. But deep down, they are terribly insecure. Insecurity is often what drives their extreme narcissistic tendencies. These individuals need constant validation from others because they’re unable to give that validation to themselves. They act as though your opinion doesn’t matter, but to a true narcissist, few things matter more.
6. The Silent Treatment:
Narcissists may believe their presence is a gift. They act like their company or attention is conditional, and when something goes wrong, they quickly pull their attention away. For example, if there’s a narcissistic person in your life, you may be familiar with the silent treatment. This person may shut you out for hours or days, refusing to talk until you apologize and give in to their demands. This is not only immature but also very toxic. By staying silent, this person is trying to control and take advantage of you. No matter what you did, silence isn’t the answer. Anyone who refuses to engage or communicate may be more narcissistic than you think.
7. They Need to Be Right:
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