Narcissists always think they’re the center of attention. They feel a bright spotlight shining down on them at all times. For example, when they walk down the street, they assume every passerby is checking them out. When they enter a room, they expect heads to turn and eyes to follow their every move. This is commonly known as spotlight syndrome, and it’s a very common sign of a narcissistic personality. Narcissists struggle to correctly interpret the feelings and expressions of others. So, they often project their ideas and narratives onto the people they encounter. They want the world to watch and admire them, so that’s exactly what they see.
2. Toxic Love:
Narcissistic personalities seem charming when we first meet them. They shower us with compliments and attention, making us feel like the only person in the world. Because they come on so strong, we assume they’re genuinely interested in building a relationship, but that fantasy quickly comes crashing down. Narcissists often start strong and fizzle just as fast. At first, they’re excited about some romantic fantasy. But they become selfish and controlling once the relationship gets real. If you know someone with similar unrealistic ideas about love, be careful. They may initially seem charming and romantic, but chasing a fantasy can be toxic.
3. Delusions of Grandeur:
Narcissists believe they are fundamentally superior and assume that fact is evident to everyone they meet. Because they’re supposedly better than everyone, narcissists think they deserve more. They demand gifts, shortcuts, and special treatment. They may consider themselves “higher status” and become upset when treated like everyone else. To a narcissist, the cards should always be stacked in their favor, but these delusions of grandeur shouldn’t go unnoticed. If someone in your life thinks they’re more important than everyone else, you may be dealing with a narcissist.
4. The Narcissist’s Façade:
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