A narcissist might claim they are creating physical boundaries, saying a particular room is off-limits for their work or relaxation. This room is often dark and suffocating. You aren’t allowed to clean it or even knock on the door. This exclusionary tactic destabilizes you, especially in the early stages of the relationship, leaving you confused about the boundaries, which are really just a means to keep you out.
Number five: They force major environmental changes.
A narcissist will make unilateral decisions about redecorating, repainting, or even selling the house, leaving you with no say. This was a recurring theme in my childhood—I never felt settled because we were always moving. My father would prioritize financial gain, while my mother would claim the house was haunted. In short, there was no peace, and nothing ever felt safe.
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