Ever wonder what a narcissist will do when they’re desperate to pull you back but can’t undo the damage they’ve caused? Today, we’re exposing five sneaky tactics narcissists use when they feel you slipping out of their control.
Let’s examine the strategies they might use, so you’ll know what to expect.
For a narcissist, control isn’t just a preference—it’s a necessity. It fuels their sense of importance and self-worth. When they sense they’re losing control over you, they can spiral quickly, grasping for ways to regain power. These tactics may seem familiar if you’ve been through this before, but they’re no less impactful. Narcissists will keep testing different approaches to see what works to pull you back in. Let’s break down these common tricks so you can recognize them and stay out of their reach.
1. Blaming You
One classic move in their arsenal is shifting the blame. Narcissists hate taking responsibility. To them, nothing is ever their fault. The second they feel you slipping away, they might try to pin every issue in the relationship on you.
Statements like “You’re just too sensitive” or “You’re making a big deal out of nothing” are designed to make you second-guess yourself and feel like you’re the problem. It’s not a genuine reflection; it’s a deliberate ploy to make you doubt yourself and keep you stuck in their web.
2. Playing the Victim
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