In the mind of a narcissist, a relationship ending means someone is at fault, and they are determined that it will not be them, even if it is. This is why narcissists slander their partners so that if the relationship ever ends, they have covered their backsides. Their story is already in place, so that no one would ever look at them as the bad guy. What is annoying is when the narcissist actually ends up staying with their partner for decades but has been slandering them ruthlessly for years. The people who believe the narcissist’s lies about this other person end up viewing the narcissist as a saint for being such a patient person for enduring with their so-called toxic partner, child, friend, whoever it is, for so long. What is certain is that whether the narcissist is a man or a woman, they are always the victim in their relationships.
When a relationship ends with a narcissist, all the narcissist is concerned about is appearing blameless. A failed relationship can never be their fault as they try to convince themselves and others that they are the ones who gave their all to the relationship, so it is always the other person’s fault. It’s the other person who doesn’t value commitment or family. It’s the other person who is crazy and selfish, but they, the narcissist, are innocent. Narcissists tell lies to get into relationships, and they tell lies to get out of relationships. It’s interesting how they enter relationships as saviors, wanting to help us, love us, and cherish us, but then leave as the victim. But this is why narcissists are not known to change their ways because they are too busy trying to pin the blame on everyone else, instead of looking in the mirror and seeing themselves for what they really are.
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