Navigating relationships with narcissists can be challenging, especially in negotiation settings. As Rebecca Zung, a lawyer, author, and expert in narcissistic negotiations, points out, understanding the underlying motivations of narcissists is crucial for establishing respect. Here, we’ll explore her six strategies to earn respect from narcissists, with the most effective tip saved for last.
Six Strategies to Earn Respect from Narcissists
6. Stay Distant
Maintaining a healthy distance from narcissists is crucial. If you become too close, revealing your vulnerabilities, they may lose respect for you. Narcissists often test their targets to determine how much control they can exert. By keeping some emotional distance, you can protect yourself and assert your independence. Trust your instincts; if something feels off, it probably is.
5. Stay Independent
Financial and emotional independence is vital when dealing with narcissists. If you can maintain your own stability—whether in a personal or professional relationship—you will command more respect. Zung shares an example of someone caught in a relationship with a narcissist who has become entirely dependent on their partner. Building your skills and financial foundation not only empowers you but also prompts narcissists to tread lightly around you.
4. Cultivate Value
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