You understand why their return would be detrimental to your well-being. The universe, divine providence—call it what you will—is working in your favor. This period of silence, this absence of contact, is a gift, a blessing in disguise. You must embrace this perspective. The transformative power of this experience will become evident. You will, regardless of your current despair, recognize the ending of this relationship as a profound liberation. They, however, will remain trapped in their own self-maintained prison.
You—imperfect yet striving—offered your best. You poured your heart and soul into the relationship, giving all that you were capable of at that time. As you continued to evolve, you would have become an even more extraordinary source of supply. But here’s the crucial truth: they were holding you back. They were impeding your growth. You were destined for greater heights, for a more fulfilling existence. Their absence is not a loss; it’s a necessary catalyst for your transformation.
They must perpetuate the illusion of control. They must leave you suspended in a state of perceived abandonment, of fractured self-worth, of feeling utterly forgotten. They understand this prolongs your captivity, your emotional entanglement. They recognize the risk of revealing too much or offering you ammunition to be used against them. They are, in essence, terrified of your potential retaliation.
Furthermore, they are acutely aware that you have seen through their carefully constructed facade. You know their true nature. Imagine the sheer discomfort they experience at the thought of facing you, of attempting to resurrect their old manipulative tactics. They are exposed; their vulnerabilities are laid bare. They saw you—all of you—possessing those rare qualities as a perpetual source of supply. But your very existence became a source of torment, a constant reminder of their own inadequacy. Your inherent goodness, your genuine nature, made them feel inferior, regardless of the bravado they projected.
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