Pain has a strange way of speaking louder than comfort ever could. What the narcissist once used as a weapon to crush you has become the very soil where your strength has taken root in the moment of betrayal. When lies wrap themselves around your heart and rejection presses down like a storm, it may feel like the end of everything. But pain has this mysterious power: it refines, it reshapes, it transforms. The wounds that once bled to spare are now the marks that declare, “I survive and I’m stronger than I ever imagined.” The narcissist counts on pain to paralyze you. They believe that gaslighting, rejection, and deceit will hold you captive in weakness. What they didn’t realize is that pain, once faced and carried through, becomes power. Every sleepless night builds endurance. Every moment you doubted your own reality gave you sharper discernment. Every time you rose from the ashes of their cruelty, you grew in patience, courage, and wisdom. These are treasures no narcissist can ever strip away.
Look at what pain has taught you. It taught you the necessity of boundaries. It opened your eyes to who truly stands by your side when darkness falls. It tuned your ears to that quiet inner voice that always senses what isn’t right. Those lessons came at a high cost, yes, but they’ve equipped you to never again settle for lies dressed as love. Your scars are not defeats; they are declarations. They whisper, “I walk through fire, and I still carry light.” They testify that you faced the cruelty of another soul and yet refused to let it kill your humanity. That is power. That is victory. That is something the narcissist cannot erase. And it doesn’t stop with you. When you stand tall after everything you’ve endured, you become living proof for others who are drowning in the same storm. Your survival is their hope. Your courage lights the way. What once came to destroy you now multiplies as transformation, rippling outward and reaching hearts you may never even know.
The narcissist wanted you broken. But here you stand, wiser, bolder, more resilient than before. Every scar is a reminder—not of weakness, but of strength born in the fire. Pain is not your ending; it is the evidence of your beginning again. Now, let’s talk about justice. The narcissist can charm, manipulate, and slip into new circles. But there’s one courtroom they can’t escape: the justice of God. Human justice fails. Friends can be fooled. Communities can be deceived. But divine justice cannot be tricked by masks. God sees behind every closed door. He hears the cries that no one else hears. He knows the truth that the narcissist works endlessly to bury. And because of that, justice is inevitable.
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