So let’s take a closer look at what’s going on here. Firstly, narcissists have no respect for the feelings of those around them, and this is why they cheat. They’ll act as if you don’t exist once you leave their company. Narcissists find it easy to neglect you, take advantage of you, and then discard you when you no longer bring value. They’ll have no problem scamming you as if they were never close to you. Not to mention the fact that narcissists are generally dishonest, so this comes as no surprise when it comes to infidelity.
The covetous nature of narcissists plays a large role in this. As a result, even if things appear to be going well between you and them, they’ll still be looking for a way to gain something extra from others that you can’t supply. They think they’re entitled to anything they can get their hands on, regardless of how much they already have.
Another reason is that they’re just plain tired of having a good relationship with you. They can’t tune in on calm waters, and they can’t settle with one emotional state for too long. Essentially, they’re conflicted inside, and because there are no longer any obstacles to overcome in your relationship with them, they soon become bored. Seeing the same person repeatedly wears them out.
In order to keep themselves occupied while simultaneously increasing their supply bank, narcissists seek out and secure new sources of supply. The choices a narcissist makes in this regard may surprise you. There is often no one better than you that the narcissist has their eyes on at any one time. You may find their affair is no better than you in terms of attributes, outlooks, and even attitudes.
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