Today we’re talking about three secrets that narcissists do not want you to know. Throughout the article, I will also add one secret that you have that you should not let the narcissist know. So, let’s get started!
Number one: The narcissist does not want you to know what they’re thinking when they give you the silent treatment. Why? Because if you truly understood their thought process, you wouldn’t beg, cry, or chase after them trying to get them to break the silence. You wouldn’t spend your whole day ruminating, wondering what you did wrong, or trying to figure out how to reconcile. No, you would run away.
So, what goes through their minds when they give you the silent treatment? They think about how powerful they feel when they see how devastated you are. They may think, “All I did was stop talking to her, and look at how crushed she looks. I am so important to her that without me, she feels broken and dying.” It’s a twisted sense of power for them, reinforcing their belief that they can control you. They often reflect on past experiences where their silence drove you to the brink of madness, and they thrive on this chaos.
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