Narcissists are terrified of being exposed. Their entire persona relies on maintaining an image of superiority and perfection. If you have any information that threatens this façade, you hold a powerful weapon.
For example, in a mediation situation, if you know something they don’t want revealed—like infidelity or a secret health issue—subtly implying that this information could come out will make them panic. The fear of public exposure or their carefully crafted image being shattered is one of their biggest vulnerabilities.
4. Losing Control
The ultimate fear for a narcissist is losing control. All of their manipulative tactics—gaslighting, lying, intimidation—are about maintaining power over you. When they start to lose control, they panic.
If you stop reacting to their lies, intimidation, or love-bombing, they will realize that their tactics no longer work. They might try harder, throwing tantrums or increasing their efforts to manipulate you, but this only signals their growing panic. The more you refuse to engage with their games, the more they lose control, driving them into a state of anxiety.
Conclusion
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