There comes a moment in every survivor’s journey when the game they’ve been living in finally becomes crystal clear: the rules, the traps, the sleight of hand—all of it. You finally see the game for what it is, as well as the players for exactly who and what they are. You realize it was never love; it was control dressed as concern, chaos disguised as connection. And now that you see it, you can’t unsee it.
But here’s the million-dollar question: once you’ve figured out the narcissist’s game, is it possible to beat them at it? Or are you destined to lose no matter what you do? We are going to dive into this topic and explore whether a target can beat the narcissist at their own game, and if so, how one would go about doing that. Would that mean you have become the same type of person the narcissist is? Or can you beat them without betraying your values and character?
So today we’re talking about how to beat the narcissist at their own game. Is it even possible? And if so, can you do it without betraying your own values and character? The answer to those questions, in my opinion, is absolutely, unequivocally yes. You can beat the narcissist at their own game, and it does not require you to abandon or betray your own values, morals, and character.
The first thing we need to discuss regarding how to do this is making yourself unreadable. The narcissist’s power depends entirely on access—not to your body, but to your emotional blueprint. They dissect your patterns like a predator stalking prey, waiting for the moment you lower your guard. They know your fears, your needs, your insecurities, and your reactions. But the moment you become emotionally grounded, they lose their ability to predict your moves, and that terrifies them.
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