A key tactic in the narcissist’s arsenal is the deliberate misinterpretation of events and statements. They twist and bend the truth, presenting a distorted version that casts themselves as the victim and the family as aggressors. Since the spouse is often isolated from their family, they hear only the narcissist’s side, further cementing the wedge driven between them and their loved ones.
Putting Words in Their Spouse’s Mouth
Narcissists often put words in their spouse’s mouth, telling others what their spouse supposedly said about them. This tactic forces the spouse to choose sides publicly, usually aligning with the narcissist to avoid conflict. This manipulation not only strains relationships but also isolates the spouse further from their support network.
Stirring Up Family Drama
Narcissists may employ a divide-and-conquer strategy within the family, befriending and manipulating more gullible members to criticize others, then reporting these criticisms with a negative spin. This stirs internal conflict, making it appear as though the family is inherently dysfunctional, while the narcissist remains above suspicion.
Physical and Emotional Isolation
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