A narcissistic man who sleeps around does not necessarily have to be gay to be so promiscuous. They do it because it strokes their ego. I’m talking about a very sensitive topic, and this may sound like a generalization, but it’s just what I have seen and experienced. Gay men are really sweet, really welcoming, really accommodating. They tend to see good in other people. So, not all gay people are like that, but this is, as I said, a generalization. If narcissists get that kind of welcome, that kind of attention from a mate of theirs, and they feel like, ‘Oh wow, this is the ultimate ego tingling that I can ever experience,’ why not go for it? If you’re not into that, if that’s not your orientation, who gives a damn? It works for me right now because I am not into actually feeling the sexual connection. I am into feeling the validation, the image this person who is giving me that gratification has of me, how they put me on a pedestal. That is everything for me.
Another reason why female partners of such male narcissistic, promiscuous individuals feel that their partner may be homosexual is that they lose interest as the relationship turns into something more serious. Things get a lot more difficult. In simple words, when they get married to you, they do not show the same kind of interest in physical intimacy as they displayed in the beginning. Naturally, you will tend to do two things: one, question your own attractiveness, your worthiness, how you are perceived, and how good-looking or bad-looking you are. There’s something wrong with your orientation; maybe they’re not interested in you; they find somebody else interested; maybe they are interested in people of the same gender or orientation. What’s going on? Your brain is going to go there. But I invite you today to think about it differently and understand that this person you’re dealing with essentially does not have any genuine interest. If they have to mirror you to exist, to deal with you, to find an entry into your life, imagine what else they would have to do to live this fake life of theirs. They’re a chameleon, a shape-shifter, and that is also applicable to their sexuality. So let me say it one more time, and very clearly: not all narcissistic men who display an extreme form of sexual fluidity are gay, and not all female narcissists are lesbian. It’s that they do not have any true sexual personality or identity; they truly and overly go with the flow, and they can sleep with anybody. I mean, anybody if that anybody uplifts their ego. That is what this entire thing is all about.
Also, their brain chemistry, their structures in there, are wired in a very messy way. One cannot comprehend how, but just know that they find pleasure in things you would find appalling. With that, let’s bring this episode to an end.
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