Number three, have authentic curiosity.
When we approach another person, any individual, with genuine curiosity and compassion, we set the tone of the conversation to a more positive one from the start.You may all also learn a thing or two that you weren’t already aware of by taking this approach.
Now, the reality is the narcissist isn’t going to be able to do this for you, but you can bring this to the table of the conversation or negotiation, and more often than not, you’ll find it’ll be well worth the effort to do so.
Rule number four: ask them what they think.
A good way to begin a conversation with a narcissist is to ask them what they think. First of all, it’s wise not to assume that you already know what they’re thinking. Second, you give them the floor, space, time, and attention to speak their mind, share their point of view, and express their thoughts, feelings, and beliefs, as well as be heard. The attention and validation alone will set the tone of the conversation to be more positive.
And now you’re armed with a ton of information and clarity you may not have had initially. Information is power, especially when dealing with a narcissist. So ask the question, sit back, and let ’em rip. They’ll tell you everything you need to know and then some.
Much of it will likely be complete and utter nonsense, lies, and deception.
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