You will have the upper hand in almost every situation because they need your reaction. They need you to justify yourself, to argue, to defend, and to explain. Most of the time, you have to stay silent. Don’t say anything at all. Ninety-nine point nine percent of the time, you have to do nothing, and they will destroy their own destiny. Like I explained in a previous episode, zero point one percent of the time, you have to act—and act decisively. Your one strike should be equal to their million strikes. When you speak up, speak up with purpose, intent, and objectivity, and be rooted in your truth.
Conclusion: Handling Narcissists Safely
That is how you handle a narcissist in arguments. You don’t argue with them; you just show them a mirror and watch them unravel. But you do it safely.
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