They become good in bed to compensate for being broke. This is super important and rarely talked about, but it is incredibly common. When a narcissist has nothing else to offer, they use their body. They turn intimacy into a transaction. Suddenly, the narcissist who was distant or inattentive becomes passionate, seductive, even loving in the bedroom. You may think they have changed; you may believe it’s a genuine expression of closeness. But behind the passion is a cold calculation. As long as they keep you hooked physically, you will overlook the money problems. They know that if they can give you pleasure, if they can make you feel desired, then you are less likely to demand repayment, less likely to call them out, and more likely to keep supporting them financially. That is the strategy. While you are left confused, wondering if intimacy means they care, for them, it’s nothing more than survival currency.
7. Reinventing as a Visionary
When all other tricks fail, the broke narcissist reinvents themselves as a visionary. They will suddenly talk about their big dreams, a business venture, a project, or an investment scheme that could change everything. They speak with such conviction and charm that you believe them. They paint a picture of a better future—not just for themselves, but for you and your kids—convincing you that this time it’s worth the risk. All they need is a little financial support, just a small investment to get started. But here is the reality: once the money is in their hands, the dream disappears, the project stalls, the business never gets off the ground, and the excuses pile up. It was never about the vision; it was about securing resources. While you are left with regret and financial loss, they are already moving on to the next illusion they can sell to someone else. That’s their life; that’s who they are.
Conclusion: The Chilling Reality
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