Number three: “It’s not really always about you. Why do you have to make it about yourself all the time?” Your emotions and feelings are a big inconvenience to a narcissist. When you talk about what you need and deserve, they make it seem like you’re being selfish. This guilt-tripping tactic is used to make you feel bad for expecting reciprocity. They see themselves as self-centered and selfish, but project this onto you when you set boundaries. For a narcissist, it’s always about them. They expect you to be unconditionally giving and loving without expecting anything in return. They use your needs against you to make you feel guilty and selfish, trying to twist the truth to their advantage.
Number four: “That was not my intention.” When your narcissistic partner or parent makes hurtful comments, they often justify it by claiming their intention was not to hurt you. They might say, “My intention wasn’t to destroy you; I just wanted to give you feedback because I care about you.” This is gaslighting, as they deny the harm caused by their words and actions, making you question your reality and feel guilty for reacting to their hurtful behavior.
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