Welcome! In this article, I will discuss how to spot 10 red flags in intimate romantic relationships with a female who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). At the end, I will provide my best advice on what to do if you are in this situation. This information is for educational purposes only, so if you need help with your specific situation, please consult a mental health professional who specializes in personality disorders. Now, let’s dive in.
Toxic Behaviors
The toxic behaviors of a female with BPD can vary greatly, depending on the type of BPD she has, the severity of her symptoms, and whether she is receiving treatment. When it comes to Cluster B personality disorders, symptoms often overlap, and co-occurring disorders can make it complex even for professionals. Instead of focusing solely on whether your partner has BPD, it’s essential to focus on the behavior and whether that behavior is toxic and tolerable to you. Below are 10 general red flags you may encounter:
Red Flag 1: Idealization
She idealizes you, putting you on a pedestal and making you feel incredibly special. This creates an intense emotional connection that you may have never experienced before. She aligns with everything you like, and it feels as though she’s the perfect match. You might even find yourself discussing “soulmate” or “twin flame” connections early on. However, her sense of self is unstable, and she is mirroring you, trying to become your ideal fantasy. The relationship may progress rapidly, but it’s important to recognize that she doesn’t fully know who she is.
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