Are you still up for number six? Narcissists love-bomb you, then ghost. Do you remember how amazing it felt in the beginning, like you were in a dream? The narcissist came on strong, didn’t they? They showered you with compliments, constant texts, and sweet words that made you feel like the most important person in the world. That’s love-bombing. But then, just as quickly as it started, it all stopped. The messages slowed down, the affection faded, and you were left wondering what you did wrong. The truth is, you didn’t do anything wrong. Narcissists crave the thrill of winning someone over, but once they feel they’ve got you, the excitement fades. You weren’t a person to them; you were a fix, a momentary boost to their ego. And when that high wore off, they ghosted, showing they never cared about building something real.
Let’s keep it moving to number seven: narcissists pretend to forget the things that matter to you. Isn’t it strange how the narcissist always forgets what matters to you but never what benefits them? You told them about your birthday, that important interview, or a painful memory you trusted them with, but somehow they just forgot. No text, no support, no acknowledgment. It stings, doesn’t it? Deep down, you know it’s not about forgetfulness, but about the effort. Remembering those things would mean caring enough to be emotionally present, and narcissists just don’t go there unless there’s something in it for them. But funny how they never forget a compliment you gave them or a moment where they looked good. That’s not memory; that’s priority. And sadly, your heart wasn’t one of theirs.
Here comes number eight: narcissists mock or minimize your dreams. Have you ever shared a dream with a narcissist and walked away feeling stupid for even having it? You finally built up the courage to talk about going back to school, starting that business, or chasing something that lights you up. However, instead of cheering you on, they laugh, roll their eyes, or say something like, “That’s cute.” It’s painful because you wanted support, not sarcasm. But here’s the thing: narcissists don’t want you to grow; your dreams threaten their control. If you become confident and independent, they lose their grip, so they minimize your goals to keep you small, unsure, and easier to manipulate. It’s not about your dreams being silly, but about them feeling insecure when you shine.
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