4 Things You Must Never Say to a Narcissist

Do not tell them you see through their narcissism because it will not change anything. They are delusional beings, and it will not melt them instantly or trigger a change of heart. It won’t make them feel shame or create a sense of reflection. What will happen is they will use your awareness against you. They will gaslight you and twist things so that by the end of the conversation, you will feel like the narcissist and question your sanity. So, do not tell them what you see. Keep your observations to yourself, and stay a step ahead by knowing how to play the game without revealing your insights. Do not tell them how fragmented or rotten they are; just acknowledge it to yourself and remain mysterious.

3. What hurts you

Do not tell them what hurts you because they will use it as ammunition against you. They love gathering information from you, especially about your emotions. Pouring out your emotions in front of them, hoping they will change or feel empathy, is an expression of total helplessness. Many survivors break down in front of narcissists, hoping this final breakdown will wake up a human element in them. However, that never happens. They are predators who will push those points to hurt you when the time is right. Keep your pain to yourself. Talk to a wall, a dog, or a stranger, but not to a narcissist. Accept that the person you met never existed; it was just a mask.

4. It’s your childhood trauma

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